May 5, 2025 | Simone Usselman-Tod
When we recognize how our attachment wounds influence our adult relationships, we can begin to create safety internally rather than searching for it externally. This is where nervous system regulation, mindset mastery, and inner leadership intersect. And where we learn to regulate our nervous system, rewire our beliefs, and stop defaulting to old survival patterns.
Apr 1, 2025 | Simone Usselman-Tod
I work with smart, capable women who often find themselves stuck in stress loops and overthinking spirals. Imagine breaking free from that cycle—where instead of letting fear and perfectionism hold you back, you tap into a clear, aligned mindset that empowers you to take decisive action. In our work together, we shift from feeling overwhelmed by every tiny detail to focusing on what truly matters: your vision, your values and your success. This is your opportunity to transform stress into strength, clarity into momentum, and dreams into reality.
Mar 6, 2025 | Simone Usselman-Tod, Uncategorized
Overwhelm isn’t just a feeling, it has real consequences. It leads to procrastination, avoidance, and exhaustion. We begin to withdraw, neglect tasks, and isolate ourselves, reinforcing feelings of inadequacy. A vicious cycle takes hold, making it even harder to regain momentum. It is important to understand that procrastination isn’t a personal flaw. It’s not laziness or lack of discipline. It’s a freeze response, our body’s way of signalling that we are overstretched and need a reset. Instead of pushing through, we must learn to pause, assess, and realign.
Feb 3, 2025 | Simone Usselman-Tod
“Chaos is part of life, and while it often comes when we least expect it, I’ve come to realize that it’s not all bad. In fact, in Greek mythology, chaos is described as ‘the origin of everything.’ Without chaos, there would be no creation, no movement, no change. We would sink into comfortable stagnation and obscurity. And while that may sound like an appealing destination for a short visit, it’s not the place where we grow, learn, or evolve.”
This touches on the paradox of chaos being both disruptive and necessary for growth, and it gives readers a thought-provoking perspective right from the start.
Jan 10, 2025 | Simone Usselman-Tod
After years of bracing against every new transition, I have learned to embrace change. Now, I focus on identifying where to adapt and how to leverage the elements that will bring the greatest benefits to our lives.
Jan 2, 2025 | Simone Usselman-Tod
A new year brings fresh opportunities—a blank slate to redefine what matters most and take steps toward the life you envision. This is your time to take the lead, own your decisions, and actively shape the path ahead.
Being in control of your life isn’t about managing every twist and turn. It’s about recognizing your ability to influence outcomes through the choices you make and the actions you take. This approach transforms challenges into stepping stones and empowers you to create a life that aligns with your vision and values.